Sexual Identity Rating Scale

So many of us struggle with internal issues such as ‘do I want to go into law or medicine’ or ‘where shall I live’, ‘am I gay/lesbian, straight or bisexual.’ Some societies are addicted to yes or no, black or white. How about a hybrid? Some can be a plumber and electrician; be a switch hitter in baseball; play offense and defense in football, so why are we propelled to declare one sexual identity? Here is my rating scale.Sincerely,


Note: Place yourself on the Bi Gauge based on what the sexual attraction is in your heart and mind. There is nothing to hide here. You can be free and honest.

         If you are not sure of which number to pick, say 4 or 5, close your eyes, take a deep breath and let your inner adviser whisper to you. It will become clear as to which number to choose.

0 = Totally straight. Only interested in the opposite gender. No thoughts or internal stirring for your own side.

1 = In your life there might have been a few people of your own gender that have excited you sexually.

2 = Periodically (up to four times per year) there is someone of your own gender either in person, on TV or in a movie or video that creates a sexual heat in you.

3 = Your sexual attraction for your own gender is between periodic and regular.

4 = You have regular sexual excitement for your own team but less than half of the time.

5 = The balance point. Your sexual thoughts, interests and stirrings are equally weighed between both men and women.

6 = You have regular sexual excitement for your own team and it is more than half of the time.

7 = Your sexual attraction for the other gender is between periodic and regular.

8 = Periodically (up to four times per year) there is someone of the opposite gender either in person, on TV or in a movie or video that creates a sexual heat in you.

9 = There might have been a few people of the opposite gender that has excited you sexually

10 = Totally gay/lesbian. Only interested in your own gender. No thoughts or internal stirring for the other side.


Exposing Myself (New Book)

I love to write and create stories from life. Well, don’t all authors do that? I add my sometimes silly sense of humor, the art of inventing words, and a significant dose of wise-ass to my stories so that I enjoy them, and to be honest yet humble, many others also find an interest and lust in them and that warms me.

I primarily write bi-sexual stories because I am bisexual, closeted for most of my life, out for 3 years, because I live in a safe part of the US (and the world) that doesn’t kill or drag non-straights behind cars.

If you’re interested in erotic (Yes, I mean horny, sexual) stories with a developed plot, please check out my new book, Hearts United. It’s a compendium of 8 short stories that is a coming of age for a young, American-born Italian lad who learns gay and bisexual conduct is thousands of years old, and that modern society sadly has reverted to a Dark Ages of sort by trying to make all of mankind gay or straight. Young Joshua DeAngelo is blessed with a loving, understanding father, and a dictatorial mother who lacks love and nurturing qualities.

Josh comes out to his best friend, Rachel, who lusts for his love. Josh does a men’s room hookup and falls for the guy, sexy Cole. In the end there’s an awesome 3-way that seals their love and friendships. Along the way Josh is ‘used’ by three college girls roleplaying as pirates, and Josh is seduced by a cougar (Stephanie) who teaches him new tricks, including orchestrating a 4-way with Cole, Stephanie and her client Torin.

The purpose of my life is to serve, and I hope I’ve served readers with this creation. I loved writing it and proudly, yet humbly offer it to the world for hot, steamy sexual entertainment. Why deny yourself anymore? Check it out :


David Sullivan
Proud author of a phenomenal publishing house, Love You Divine!
And remember, regardless of your sexual identity, we all came from the factory as we are!

New Bisexual Story

I’m proud of myself. I have a new story out.

Growing up I’d heard that pride is sinful. I now believe pride is akin to every other aspect, tool, or attribute: there’s a balance. Some pride is excellent. If it gets out of hand and becomes excessive it’s a negative.

Anyway, my story. It’s called Hearts United. It was published as an 8-part story and now that it’s finished my awesome publisher brought it together as a complete story. It’s available in print, or digital formats…..ohhhh, such an array of choices.

It’s about a young, Italian lad, 2nd generation, in San Jose, Califoria, circa 2002. Joshua, or commonly called Josh, is handsome, multi-talented, respected and bisexual. His dad is great and his mom a pill, filled with stress and an unhealthy relationship with death. Over a few years Josh collects an array of friends and sometimes friends with benefits. He falls in love with his best friend, and neighbor, Rachael, who, once she learns that Josh goes both ways accepts and nurtures him.

Ah, so much to talk about. There’s the tea trade (public bathroom) hook up that turns into a great friend for Josh. Cole also struggles with his bi-ness (I invented that word, thank you.) After some rejection by Rachel, they warm to each other, and all three end up in bed, including with a role-play scene. Josh also goes through a period of being loved by a rich cougar who leaves him when it’s clear he’s in love with Rachael.

I believe in short blogs so this is it. Please check it out:

Hello world!

Hello World!

This will appeal to a small number of folks, but I’m offering insight, sometimes humor and a frequent wise-ass attitude on life. Since the alias I chose is “Bi Writer” many posts will involve sexual identity, specifically bisexuality. I feel it’s suffers from low respect from the world and that includes straight (heterosexual) society and sometimes gays and lesbians.

I love to write and share. I hereby render stellar support and respect, most certainly respect, for two publishers: who published my first book in 2009, on wisdom and common sense (Under my legal name of Jim Giambrone, Jr. Yes, I’m out as being bi.) Mr. Robert Reed has been publishing for 40 years. The author contract I signed required that we have fun!  As with the above publisher, respect for authors and their works is high on the required list. If you want hot, well-written erotic stories check this place out. Yes, I have a dozen or so there. They launched their bisexual line with my first erotic story! BLUSH.

And thanks to WordPress for making blogs so easy.

Thanks for visiting. Respect and understanding, even when we disagree is critical to the survival of our species. Different is not wrong. Just because any discrimination or prejudice has existed for a long time does not mean it has to continue. Break the chain: Respect!

Sincerely, with my Respect and Friendship,

David Sullivan